In His Own Words
About Him
I’m a country boy. I love the outdoors and do my best to be in them as much as I can. I prefer to leave most details for actual conversation. Skimming through profiles is not a great way to get to know someone but it is a means to find those that are actively searching.
Let’s be honest, person to person interaction is so much better. You have the ability to read someone’s body language. You get to see if there is interest by making eye contact or smiling at them and seeing their reaction to these gestures. This simply isn’t possible on these platforms. Traditionally it is up to the man to make the first move to show interest. And that is totally reasonable for in person interaction. But who wants to make the first move without first seeing some indicator that it will be welcomed or that some interest is reciprocated.
With that, if you do have some interest, please give some kind of indication. A simple 🙂 in a message would be a great indication that there is some kind of interest and allows for a relaxed conversation to begin.
If I simply message with a 🙂, that is my way of shooting a signal that I have interest in you. Just the same as a smile or making eye contact in person. It’s not perfect, but I’m working with what I have to still take the roll of being a man and making the first move.
Possible deal breakers:
I have a young son that I have regularly so leaving where I am is not an option.
I was disfellowshipped for 13 years but have fully made my way back and in good standing serving as a ministerial servant. With that comes a past with mistakes and regrets.
I have tattoos
About His Ideal Match
Ideally looking for a capable wife that qualifies scripturally. Non judgmental but shrewd. Accepts that imperfection is part of our life and it takes work and effort to make it happen.
Each person is different and has different outlooks on what a mate would look like in their life.
Communication is absolutely key in a relationship. And that includes discussing boundaries as well as needs.
I don’t have a specific image of what an ideal match is for me. So just be yourself.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Provo, Utah, United States | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
37 | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body Type: |
Stocky | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Jehovah's Witness | |
Serving As: |
Ministerial Servant | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced (Free to Remarry) | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in North America | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
21 - 48 | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 10" (179cm) | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Jehovah's Witness | ||
Serving As: |
Publisher; Auxiliary Pioneer; Regular Pioneer | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Widowed; Divorced (Free to Remarry) | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Baptized Jehovah's Witness for: |
More than 10 years |
Monthly Service Hours: |
6-10 hours |
Home Bible Studies: |
1 |
Disfellowship: |
I was disfellowshipped, but I am now reinstated |
Disfellowshipped Family Members: |
Yes |
Family Members: |
Some of my family members are Jehovah's Witnesses |
Religious Attendance: |
I try to attend all weekly meetings/services without fail |
Hair Style: |
Short; Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Hairy chest only |
Sense of Humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Quiet; Realistic; Shy |
Valued Qualities: |
Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
Religious |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Westerns |
Interests: |
Auto repair |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Archery; Bowling; Camping; Fishing; Horse Riding; Hunting; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Shooting; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; Seafood; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
My friends are my main family |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using JWBuzz: |
Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |